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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 00:02

How does one succeed in life?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

"Can God create iron that God cannot bend?" Isn't it unreasonable to ask this about a being believed to have created logic? After all, God can create a logic that we can't understand right now that both are possible at the same time, right?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

Why didn’t Obito confront Kakashi after he witnessed him kill Rin?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why is my hair dry but greasy at the same time and falling out? What can I do about it?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What I need from you?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.